Not being physically attracted to someone is a VALID reason not to date someone. You should be attracted to the person for their mental as well as physical aspects.
You don’t HAVE to date someone ONLY because you like them as a person. Yall can be friends.
AND not being physically attracted to someone isn’t an excuse to be an asshole to them. There’s a difference b/w being “I don’t wanna date you ‘cause I’m not attracted to you personally, but ik other ppl will/do find you attractive” and “You are ugly as fuck lol why would you even ask”
I think this post is important. I’m never offended when someone isn’t attracted to me because of my physical appearance, I am however crushed when they use it as a reason to mistreat me. I’m fat. I know I’m fat. You don’t have to want to fuck me, but you will treat me like a human.
